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The Ultimate Guide To Successful Bondage Dating

Bondage is hardly the topic of conversation to bring up on a first date, but three dates in it certainly makes a difference when you are stood in your under crackers, whip in hand, boner standing to erection, doesn’t it? It makes sense to get these things out the way nice and early. You don’t want to waste your time with someone that doesn’t have the same sexual preferences as you. What would be the point? You wouldn’t end up marrying someone you weren’t having fabulous sex with… would you?

fetish-datingOne of the easiest places to meet new potential bondage dates is on the internet. There’s also the element of the unknown when you are not sat face to face, having a conversation with someone. In turn this means that you will have a tendency to be a bit braver than you would be in “real life”… which could lead to some interesting conversations indeed!

Of course, joining a bondage-dating specific website is a great idea if you want to come out with it straight away. At least in doing this, all cards are on the table right from the start. You can hardly have “crossed wires” about your sexual preferences when you meet on a bondage dating website, can you?

As much as we’d love to tell you a whole range of pick-up lines that you can use on dating websites to pick up potential sub missives or dominants, we’re not. In fact, you should steer well clear of these. A chat up line isn’t going to work for you. The people on these websites are not small-fry. These are the big guys – the “Christian Grey’s” of the bondage world. Do you really think “Get your coat, you’ve pulled” is going to cut it here? We really hope you don’t think that!

Ideally, you’re going to know what you want before you relive into this world. Once you’ve dipped your toes into the water, that’s it. There is no going back. You’ll start to like things that you never even thought existed. One day you’ll be innocently tying your partner up one evening and two months later, you are poking your girlfriend’s pinkie finger don your Jap’s eye. It happens – trust ys! It happens more often than you’d think.

If you don’t know what you want, have an idea of what kind of direction you want to go in next. Are you looking for someone to tie you up so that you can get a feel for what it feels like? Do you want to try spanking your other half but want to see how good it can feel for yourself beforehand to learn more about it? Whatever your reason for wanting to try your hand at successful bondage dating, you need to have some sort of strategy. You might not know what you want, but you do need to at least have a plan. Don’t know where to start? The internet is your best place to start. It might be time to start looking at YouPorn! 😉