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NSA dating = no strings attached dating. That’s literally what the name means, which should give the game away a little bit. No strings attached means no romance, no bullcrap, no fluff, no flowers or chocolates, hearts or kisses… It might seem a bit cold and calculated but for some people, it’s most definitely the way forward.
I don’t have time for a relationship!
There are so many men and women out there that simply don’t have the time to fit in a full-time relationship. Does this mean they should miss out on king nights in with multiple orgasms and chocolate body paint? Is it fair that they miss out on Saturday morning hungover sex after the night before. You don’t remember having sex the night before (yet) but you know it was good because your lips are still plumped and reddened, and you feel a slight ache between your legs. How is fair that someone should miss out on all this just because they are working seventy hours per week to become a lawyer?
My wife doesn’t understand me!
Oh come on – we’ve all heard that line. Some of you may even have used that line. It’s one that, although is a cliche, certainly does still work, and although frowned upon, is a classic example of NSA dating.
You definitely don’t want any strings attached when you are married looking for sex elsewhere. Maybe your wife hasn’t wanted to have sex since your last child was born… almost a year ago. Is she sick? Sad? Has she let herself go a bit? Are you lusting after some pretty little blonde thing like the girl you just hired to work in your office as your assistant? You don’t love your wife any less; you just need to get your rocks off somewhere. You certainly aren’t looking for someone to fall in love with. Just someone to screw from time to time when the mood takes you and you just so happen to be available at the same time.
I NEVER normally do this…
OK so this one is a line, but just like “my wife doesn’t understand me”, it’s another line that appears to work sadly. Girls, boys;when will you realise that THIS IS A LINE?
If you are finding yourself saying this, stop it. If you are stood in front of a handsome young man while your slightly balding husband is sat picking his nose on the couch, unzipping your skirt, stepping out of it, unclasping your bra… He already knows what kind of woman you are. You already know what kind of man he is. What’s the point in fluffing this up? You’re both looking for NSA dating fun… Why hide it?
There is nothing wrong with no strings attached dating, although it does have a certain stigma attached to it, and in most social circles, cheating on a partner or spouse is often not a great idea. Thankfully, you can find websites that will help you to find similar minded people online, and most dating websites will even have an “I am looking for..” box in which you can pick your preference. Most of the time you will find a “casual dating” or “NSA fun” box that you can check. Make sure that you check it!
“Dirty dating” – what does this mean to you?
For some, dirty dating is something that shouldn’t be spoken of. Two people meeting up for sex, and sex alone, is just something that so many people cannot comprehend. Maybe it’s time for these people to start opening their minds? Dirty dating offers so much more than a cheeky bonk in a restaurant toilet, although we wouldn’t turn it down if it were put on a plate for us! 😉 I found this on a trip to South Africa….women (and men) say what they want and want what they say. No B.S. So a casual date or nsa sex is just what it is. Don’t you just love it when people are so honest?
There are a million and one scenarios that would lead to someone looking for a certain type of dating site. A dating site created for those looking for a bit of fun, a nice person to have a good evening with; perhaps not in a dating scenario, but definitely in a pants-own scenario. Dirty dating, NSA dating, no strings attached…. Is it really all that bad?
Let’s say you are a 30-something year old guy that has never been married or had kids because you were one hundred percent dedicated to your career. You don’t have time to be in a relationship with another person. It wouldn’t be fair on them OR you. You can’t give them the time they need because you work 75 hours per week and not ready to slow down at any point soon.
You need the touch of a woman’s fingers working her way down your groin, right? You want to feel the weight of a woman when she is straddling you, bouncing her way to making you climax. You want to experience knee-trembling kisses, and naughty nights in hotel rooms. Why should you give up on this just because you don’t have the time for a relationship? You could always go for prostitutes but honestly, who has time for that? And it’s hardly a nice thought is it? And the really classy ones are super expensive. Who has the money for a hobby like that?
What about the 20-something year old girls out there that are studying during the days, and working most nights and weekends too? Kelly, for example, wants to be a nurse. In order to survive in her two bedroom flat alongside her studies, she needs to work so she has a part time job in a call centre for a bank. She’s a very busy girl, especially when you consider she only has two nights per week spare to spend with friends and family. She works hard but she loves her life. She doesn’t have time for a full-time man in her life but she has needs, and there’s only so far a battery operated device will go.
What’s wrong with her meeting a nice young guy on a dirty dating website, letting him take her out for dinner, and then heading back to his for a night of hair-pulling, back-scratching, sweaty, passionate sex? He’s using a condom so she won’t catch a disease or get pregnant, and occasionally, she’ll call him up from time to time to repeat the evening. Who is she hurting? If you are in the UK, check out a no holds barred casual sex dates web site that I found called lookingforsex.co.uk. Great name huh? No need to use your imagination there then!
These two examples are the tip of the iceberg. Dirty dating sites attract a whole host of men and women, from married men whose wives won’t have sex with them, to girls looking for a way to boost their confidence after a particularly nasty breakup. Consenting adults lead their own lives and as you can imagine, all sorts of things could happen when the lights go out at the end of the date!
It might not be everyone’s cup of tea but dirty dating certainly serves a purpose. If it didn’t, it would exist, would it? Yes there are some really dirty people out there that spread diseases and have no respect for the partner they are with, but if you choose a good dating website and are smart about your dirty dating choices, and above all else, ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM, what’s it gotta do with anyone else?