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Bondage is hardly the topic of conversation to bring up on a first date, but three dates in it certainly makes a difference when you are stood in your under crackers, whip in hand, boner standing to erection, doesn’t it? It makes sense to get these things out the way nice and early. You don’t want to waste your time with someone that doesn’t have the same sexual preferences as you. What would be the point? You wouldn’t end up marrying someone you weren’t having fabulous sex with… would you?
One of the easiest places to meet new potential bondage dates is on the internet. There’s also the element of the unknown when you are not sat face to face, having a conversation with someone. In turn this means that you will have a tendency to be a bit braver than you would be in “real life”… which could lead to some interesting conversations indeed!
Of course, joining a bondage-dating specific website is a great idea if you want to come out with it straight away. At least in doing this, all cards are on the table right from the start. You can hardly have “crossed wires” about your sexual preferences when you meet on a bondage dating website, can you?
As much as we’d love to tell you a whole range of pick-up lines that you can use on dating websites to pick up potential sub missives or dominants, we’re not. In fact, you should steer well clear of these. A chat up line isn’t going to work for you. The people on these websites are not small-fry. These are the big guys – the “Christian Grey’s” of the bondage world. Do you really think “Get your coat, you’ve pulled” is going to cut it here? We really hope you don’t think that!
Ideally, you’re going to know what you want before you relive into this world. Once you’ve dipped your toes into the water, that’s it. There is no going back. You’ll start to like things that you never even thought existed. One day you’ll be innocently tying your partner up one evening and two months later, you are poking your girlfriend’s pinkie finger don your Jap’s eye. It happens – trust ys! It happens more often than you’d think.
If you don’t know what you want, have an idea of what kind of direction you want to go in next. Are you looking for someone to tie you up so that you can get a feel for what it feels like? Do you want to try spanking your other half but want to see how good it can feel for yourself beforehand to learn more about it? Whatever your reason for wanting to try your hand at successful bondage dating, you need to have some sort of strategy. You might not know what you want, but you do need to at least have a plan. Don’t know where to start? The internet is your best place to start. It might be time to start looking at YouPorn! 😉
Alternative dating is a relatively new concept and one that very few people have heard about. The thing about alternative dating is that it provides the perfect solution for those looking for a little something special… It’s called alternative for a reason!
You may have tried speed dating and got nowhere, you may have tried the “regular” and conventional online dating services available online but found that you had no luck. Why not try your hand at alternative dating?
The alternative dating website is basically one that doesn’t fit into an already existing niche. These are more specialist websites for more specialist people. For example, a heavily tattooed and pierced person may not got the most messages from a “regular” dating website, but on an alternative dating website dedicated to heavily body-modded people, the odds stack more in your favour. It just makes sense, doesn’t it?
So, let’s take a look at “alternative” dating…
Let’s say you’re a nudist. That’s not the type of thing that you can put on your average dating profile, is it?
“Hi, yes, my name is Dave and I like to be naked… all the time”
Firstly, how would you expect someone to respond to that if it’s not something they understand, and secondly, how many people do you think are out there that are actually comfortable with their own nudity? To be honest, for most people, it sounds like hell.
You’ll have much more luck with an alternative dating website. You’re going to be more likely to meet someone that enjoys your need when you go looking for someone on a website dedicated to it.
What about if you are the heavily tattooed guy that we spoke about earlier on? It just makes completely perfect sense for him to go on a tattooed alternative dating website to find his new love interest because he will have a better chance of finding someone with the same interests as him.
There are a whole host of alternative dating websites you can turn to – there are those dedicated to finding love while being an animal lover (not in THAT way), websites for shy people, nudist dating sites, vegetarians, music lovers, film buffs, and many more! You’re not going to want to go for dinner with someone, order a vegetarian dish and then watch your date devour their way through a massive steak. It just makes perfect sense to find someone with the same interests and tastes as you, whether it is with food, music, sex, or more.
You will have more luck in love when you find someone who at least one thing in common with you. Although opposites attract, you will need to have some matching interests otherwise you’ll have nothing to argue about, and with sex especially, it actually has the power to destroy a perfectly good relationship if needs aren’t met… Now do you see what we mean by the term “alternative dating”?