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An Unbiased View Of Dogging In The UK

Dogging is something that is still considered as a taboo subject in the UK, despite the fact that more and more people are now deciding to partake in the activity. I’m a 20-something girl that has never dogged before, and as part of the research into this unbiased view, I asked around a few of my friends that openly admit to screwing around in public, and was also invited along to enjoy the ride myself.

Of course, this is a decision not to be taken lightly… I am about to watch people have sex in a random car park. I full expected it to be seedy, disgusting, and I thought I’d see a lot more in the way of body fluids than I did. Sadly, and probably disappointingly for you guys, I didn’t join in, simply because I was too scared… I’m still a rookie after all! 😉

One of the first things that I noticed about the local dogging community in that “meeting spot” was the fact that everyone was delightfully friendly. At no point did the seedy fifty-year old guy in a string vest come over to me and ask if he could ejaculate on my chest. I always thought this would happen if I ever went dogging. I was almost disappointed! Lol!

I always assumed that greasy, seedy guys would try to force me to do things I didn’t want to do. This again, was something that didn’t happen. Although there were things going on that I probably wouldn’t have tried in the relative comfort of my own bedroom, let alone in such a public setting as a street-light-lit car park, a little out of the way from the busy roads, at no point did I feel as if I had to join in. I actually found just watching quite an interesting event and when I went home later on that evening, although I didn’t suggest to my partner where I had been, he certainly noticed a change in how wet I was when I slid right into bed next to him.

That’s the thing about dogging – it’s not quite what public perception would lead us to believe. We have all indulged in a little voyeurism from time to time whether it’s bonking on the balcony in your 20’s with the guy so fit, you couldn’t hold a serious conversation going with him. What about the time that you accidentally masturbated in the living room with the curtains open because the mood took you. Someone could have seen as they were walking past your window. The people in the houses opposite probably would have seen if they happened to be glancing out of their upper-floor windows. You didn’t care. In fact, the idea of it made it all the more horny for you. What’s the difference between that, and having sex with your partner while people watch?

At the end of the day, what works for one person in the bedroom won’t always work for someone else, but I strongly believe you can’t have an opinion about something unless you have actually tried it for yourself. I’m not suggesting that you go out and screw your partner in the first car park you happen to find. That’s illegal for a start, and you don’t want someone to call the cops on you because you are giving them a show they don’t particularly want to watch. But what’s the harm in going along for the ride? If you don’t like it, you don’t need to do it again! I’m not sure whether or not I’d actually partake in dogging myself, but watching other people writhing around in ecstasy around me certainly proved to be a massive turn on. Even if I didn’t know where to put my eyes!